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Tuesday, June 29, 2010

E-day Post Mortem

bad things happened during e-day must be avoided during wedding day..good things must be maintained and improved for everyone satisfaction. let us start with:

a) date
make sure both families agree with the dates..sometimes..girls (especially me) prefer to save the most memorable date mcm date couple ke date cantek2 ke..to share with you guys..since my risik date was 050609..i wish my e-day date to be 070809..can u guys see how these dates inter related? but then..very the very last minute my fiance's family change to 080809 as one of his sister cannot attend the day if we stick to 070809..ekceli 070809 was Friday and I think its better for us to select penghulu segala hari..but never mindla..080809 also good date what?lagipun e-day is just simple..luckily caterer+mak andam can accept it..fuihh...BUT..for wedding..of course last minute changes are unacceptable kot...
b) hantaran
we agreed hantaran to be 7 berbalas 9..good things about my e-day..fiance's family are very supportive to sponsor few hantaran for both of us..hehe i loike~but the bad thing is i cannot choose what i want to put as my hantaran or his hantaran..i am lucky coz my fiance's family punye taste is not bad and same like my family..okla kot..for wedding..me and fiance already discussed the hantaran...no more changes please...hantaran for wedding maintain as 7-9 again sebab dah xtau nk bagi ape. for e-day tak fresh flower tapi for wedding try my best..below is songket terengganu from Atikah Songket. credit to housemate, Ms Syafafwati for deco :)
c)pelamin and make up
to tell uols the truth..it is very hard to find good mak andam in terengganu..sometimes their make up too kampung..no offence..i am also coming from kampung but their make up was not natural..memangla murah but i want the best..bayar lebih takpe asal puas hati..at last i found Rathisa Bridal..2 hours driving from my hometown to her place..my mom ade tanye..why so far?krg kene bayo transportation cost..but lastly she also agreed with my choice..i loved the pelamin and her make up..for wedding..xdecide lagi cmne coz this bridal is newly setup so it takes time for them to take charge for soo many things..deko2..mekap lagi..pelamin..canopies..huhu..right now me+my mom+sister managed to survey few bridal shops kt Kompleks Teruntum..memang murah compared to KL but I’m not so sure the deliverables..ngaa..dah nk masuk bulan 7..5months to wed..am I too late? d)e-day outfit
pink peach..that’s my dream colour for e-day..i am not too gurly..pink sgt perempuan kot..tapi to show the ayuness..okla2..pink plus peach..hehe..i bought the material when I went shopping at Semua House..survey punye survey..at last jumpe jugak..First Impression at first floor..the promoter also very friendly and the package came together with kain baju melayu lelaki..for tailoring..upah kt Kerteh for baju kurung moden charges rm150..my mom said it’s expensive..yeke mahal?for fiancé..his mom tempah dekat Kuala Terengganu..
e) food and door gift
menu is typical kenduri of coz..nasi minyak..rendang daging (sgt sedap ok)..acar2..buah2..i let my mother to decide on that..for doorgfit..i bought varieties of donut from Big Apple at Mesra Mall then pakse my sister to tempek the simple tag..pagi2 bute on the day itself pick up dekat Mesra Mall.
f) room deco
hehe I also did simple room deco..cat sendiri bilik tau..katil and dressing table was the heritage from my late grandmom..no need to buy the new one oredi.. what I bought was the candle stand and the bedsheet at Royel Ampang Point

conclusion:
please plan your budget and put the money for caterer..make up and everything separately..kalo takut belanje..give to your mom for safe keeping until time for payment..let say your budget is rm3000..make sure spare more..rm3500 perhaps..in case of emergency kn..

one more thing..do spreadsheet..at least u can control money out and how much u save..you can see the benefits later on..do early survey and ask the experts..then u will not rush and have ample time to decide what’s the best for you..

haa sebelum terlupe..sometimes your family or his families punye opinion not same as yours..please tolerate and consider..think wisely and less emotional..walaupun agak susah..give and take..prepare good justification if you want to reject theirs..org tua sometimes cannot understand how excited we are until we want to control A-Z..one day u will admit that you are no longer a kid..nk jadi bini org kots!! be matured walau dalam hati ade taman!

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