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Friday, February 25, 2011

Home or Hotel? Multipurpose Hall or Beach?

What say you? I terpanggil to review my reception and solemnization venue after reading entry from gorgeous ex bride, Heed.

Before starting to review and sharing my ideas, please note that my hometown is in Terengganu..Na Na Na Na...Ganu Kite~

Solemnization Venue - Home Sweet Home
  • I had two options. either venue to be at home (rumah sebenar ye..bukan rumah tumpangan or sewa rumah orang lain) or nearest mosque (bukan surau ye).
  • Thinking of pros and cons..mak and i decided venue to be our home sweet home. why? bukan masjid tak bagus...tempat tu sangat suci..but I was thinking solemnization would be nicer to be at home..rasa cam dekat dengan family..guests pun closest families and friends je..lagipun I planned for a solemnization dais..takkan nak buat kt masjid kan..orang keluar masuk semua..ok done!
Reception Venue - Open area/space in front of Home Sweet Home
  • Part ni ade conflict sket..in the first place..i was proposing reception to be outside from our house as solemnization was done there. Reason sebab taknak susahkan mak ayah coz we are not coming from soo big families..tak cukup kaki tangan to monitor the event..i rasa kesian sangat kat Mak and Pak peluh2 bagai..kelam kabut semua..at least if we have our wedding outside..rumah pun selamat dari kunjungan manusia2 yg tidak diingini, rumah tak sepah, takde kelam kabut panas2..just meet the guests..senyum2..snap pics...
  • So i did surveyed for Awana Kijal (the nearest hotel from home - about 5 minutes kalau jam ye kawan2), Mesra Mall Multipurpose Hall (3minutes driving)...siap jumpa and mintak quotation bagai la..i let go Mesra Mall Multipurpose Hall as the price was soo unreasonable..dewan kosong je MYR5k...sila take note kawan2...ni kawasan Trg ye..kerusi..meja...platform semua another costs.fine!
  • Now proceed with Awana Kijal..at very last minute Pak disagreed..reason nanti orang kampung cakap berlagak macam kaya..orang taknak datang sebab malu..I was really tersangat la really upset..there goes people mentality..its difficult when we were dealing with people kan..haisshh..i felt very upset as we have to think impression org lain aka 'incoming guests yg belum confirmed attendance' rather than thinking ourselves..siapa yang nak kawen sekarang ni kan..Mak said dengar je la cakap Pak tu...mesti ada hikmah di sebaliknya..basically i dont have any problem sanding kat rumah..but i takut hujan..nanti x selesa..nak jalan pun lecak..confirm i sangat sedih kalau kawen tapi hujan lebat sampai banjir...huuu can i say anything?ok fine! pasrah jela~
  • Fyi, rumah kitorang dekatt dengan pantai..pernah la jugak terfikir pasal nak buat wedding kat sana kan..tapi taknak la ambil risiko..dahla pilih date time2 hujan..ribut petir ombak bergelora karang..ade je yg x kawen nanti..ok another fine!
  • So any other option? Home Sweet Home jela..we were lucky as our neighbour sudi pinjamkan tanah dia kat depan for reception..khemah2 bagai..ok confirmed!
After solemnization and reception..memang ada hikmah sebenarnya buat kat rumah..first thing..Mak and Pak sangat happy walaupun penat sangat..alhamdulillah tak hujan dan tiada kehilangan barang dalam rumah..ramai sangat orang datang even panas berpeluh2..alhamdulillah food and doorgift semua cukup...the rest yang minor2 flaws..i will share later..we can't make everyone satisfied tapi kami selamat dinikah dan disandingkan..Thank you Allah and Thank you all~

my house (right), reception (left)

see..siapa kata kawen kat rumah tak cantik? siap bersalam dengan hubby berbackgroundkan rumah~


5 comments:

  1. hi babe.just found ur blog masa u drop comment kat shoutbox i.bestnye rumah u besar la jugak. i suke wedding at home.very intimate plus save bajet.huhu. tp i risau jugak sbb rumah i kecik.huhuhuhu

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  2. wedding kat rumah ok la dear.. sbb dalam masa yg sama, tetamu boleh jenguk rumah kita.. 2 in 1 kan?

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  3. @lisa..i buat kt luar rumah..just akad kt dlm umah..taknak kasi crowded..tapi mmg save budget :)

    @adieya..memang ok dear..tapi i suggest buat wedding janganla time2 bulan hujan ye..kalau tak memang x tenang idup u :)

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  4. hi dear...i tgh survey on hall rental. google2 jmpe ur blog :)

    mesramall pnye hall mahalnye babe..how bout awana kijal?would u mind to share?

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  5. @ida : mail to me ida..i will share to u the details.. choclairissa@yahoo.com.sg

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