How's your weekend? Hope everything went well..
For today, i would like share something common that we experience. Dream! Its not about wedding dream..what we wish for..but a routine activity we must do..when we sleep..sometimes we dream..
From what i read here, dream can include any of the images, thoughts and emotions that are experienced during sleep. Dreams can be extraordinarily vivid or very vague; filled with joyful emotions or frightening imagery, focused and understandable or unclear and confusing.
Being me, back to year ago, i cannot avoid from having bride syndrome. I believe most of bride to be also having the same syndrome too.
I am a person who can easily sleep and dream, even just 5 minutes nap but I hardly sleep especially 3 months before the day. My bad habit was, i used to recap my wedding preparations while closing my eyes before went to sleep. Please bride to be, i would suggest you not to follow my habit. Trust me, you will end up golek-golek atas katil and start to stress..banyaknya belum settle!! Even there's few nights where lampu semua dah tutup and it was after midnight, i could not stop thinking about my wedding and ended up switched on the light and catit to do list and design my wedding dais..apakah?
My syndrome did not stop there..While sleeping, i dreamt macam-macam..here's few i can recall:
- I dreamt en suami (time tu en tunang) married other lady which i didn't know who. He looked very happy with his wedding even though kantoi, he still wanted to continue marrying me. Motif mimpi itu?
- I chose tiffany blue as my reception dress but during the day in my dream, it was other blue - dark blue..
- Termimpi tiba-tiba kena kahwin, i woke up in my dream and it was my solemnization day..kelam kelibut tak siap apa-apa pun..
It was really tiring to have such dreams, see the impact of bridezilla syndrome? dahla siang hari stress..weekends were fully occupied with preparation, at night even having such stressful dreams.
Moral of the story, recite doa and other prayers before you sleep..zikir ke..dont think to much about your wedding preparation like me..night is the time for you to sleep and rest..100% rest..