This is a serious topic to discuss. Nothing to do with me or anyone related to me whether direct or indirect. Its just something for us to think about and grab the lesson learnt.
As a wife, mother or future wife or mother, what will happen to you when you reach 15-20 years of wedding anniversary? We will no longer hot and sexy (hot ke sekarang?) unless you really work out and constantly take care of your body and stamina..if you're lucky, you may have few kids with your beloved husband..if you're working, you may reach few achievements..maybe at management level..or if you're a full time house wife..maybe you have to double up your daily routine, masak to more family members and attend more complicated growing up kids aka teenagers. Less sleep and shopping time for yourself..sacrificing yourself for families..we are multitasking woman..hoyeahh :)
Hurmm...what if one day you've found out that your husband no longer loves you and having somebody younger and better than you in his life? Nauzubillah..minta dijauhkan untuk kita semua..but this is possible to happen..you've found out maybe from his text message, changing behaviours, close friends reporting to you or maybe he is just being honest and tells you the truth..
Mesti sangat frust kan? Benci..marah..huhu..i can't imagine!
But my advise to you and myself, based on either Cerekarama or Dilema Wanita (astro prima kot) i watched earlier, let it happen and let it go..biarlah apa yang terjadi kat our husband..point to take away from the short drama is we should accept and redha for what had happened..berserah..why? because we already tried our very best..jaga anak..masak..kemas rumah..iron baju..obey..respect and serve our husband without failure..yes..sangat pahit to swallow but never ever think that we are imperfect and start to blame ourselves..ustaz dalam cerita tu cakap..our husband is not good enough for having us as his wife..that's why he leaves us..once your responsibilities towards husband is longer there..focus on children and Allah..move on..takkan kerana seorang lelaki..we surrender our whole life right? There are more people who loves us around..
Right now, never stop praying and doa moga moga our marriage lasts forever, be the best wife for our husband..banyak pahala kita dapatkan..
Hope my sharing give some ideas to future wife, wifey and mommies to take it positively...jom jadi isteri mithali sama sama dan jangan malas malas :)